Symptoms of Advanced Alzheimers

What Does the Future Hold?

Are you a caregiver for a person with dementia? Wondering what you will face as your loved one goes through the final stage of Alzheimer's? If you have gone through the early and intermediate stages of this disease with a family member, you may worry about what is ahead. I know we did when we were caring for two Alzheimer's patients at the same time.

Advanced Stage Can be Easier

Physical Work but Emotional Relief: It is helpful to know that while Advanced Alzheimer's brings most people to a point of needing 24-hour care, it also brings a relief from some of the most troubling aspects of the intermediate stage: delusions, paranoia, aggression, and hallucinations.

Having taken care of both of my husband's parents in their journey through Alzheimer's, I have great empathy for other caregivers. The most helpful advice I got at this stage was from our family doctor, who had walked his own father through this disease. He told me, "Things actually get easier once people with dementia deteriorate past understanding what they have lost."

My Mother-in-Law

Grandma with Grandschildren. Even in late stage Alzheimer's, touching, family visits and sharing pictures and memories can be comforting.
Grandma with Grandschildren. Even in late stage Alzheimer's, touching, family visits and sharing pictures and memories can be comforting. | Source

10 Signs of Advanced Alzheimer's

Individuals do not progress in exactly the same way, but in general, the person in the final stages of dementia will be moving towards needing a full-time caregiver to do all of their daily personal care. Occasionally, a person in late stage will rally, like when my mother-in-law suddenly called my son by name even though she hadn't seen him for months and didn't know anyone else's name. However, in considering the overall condition of the person in late stages, there is a downward progression:

  1. Personal Care: inability to do daily living tasks at all. Can't take a bath, brush hair or dress self without help.
  2. Eating: Along with not being able to feed themselves, they may have trouble with chewing and swallowing. They may not want to eat, and caregivers may be asked to consider a feeding tube.
  3. Speaking: Frequently there will be a severe decline in the ability to speak. Perhaps the person will speak a few words or sounds, or not produce recognizable speech at all.
  4. Naming: Often loses ability to know even familiar people or to recognize anyone by name.
  5. Mental State: A decline in mental functioning means that many of the most difficult psychological problems like hallucinations, paranoia and aggressiveness will decline or disappear.
  6. Incontinence: In late stages, Alzheimer's individuals generally lose control of their urinary functioning. Soon afterwards they will also be unable to control their bowels.
  7. Movement: Although some people remain ambulatory, most will have gait disorder and frequently in the late stages they will be wheelchair or bed bound.
  8. Wandering and Restlessness: Any tendency to wander will be increased and the person may now lose their way even in their own house. They may not be able to find the way back from the bathroom to their bed.
  9. Weight Loss: Partly due to the inability to eat as well as process food, they may have their body weight decline, perhaps to even below 100 pounds. They may even be in the 70-80 pound range near death.
  10. Infections and Seizures: The decline in the brain and immune system leaves the person very vulnerable to other disorders and infections, particularly pneumonia because they often cannot clear out fluids from their lungs and inhale food.

What You Need to Know

The final stage of this disease is one which requires much physical labor in caring for the daily needs of your relative, but offers more peace emotionally. It is a time of preparing them, and yourself, for the end of their journey. You will be better able to cope with this new stage if you are able to understand some things about it:

  • What does advanced Alzheimer's look like?
  • How can you tell when your loved one is reaching the end stages of dementia?
  • What can you to help your loved one prepare for the end of their journey?
  • How can you prepare yourself for the future?

Last Stage Alzheimer's patients often sleep much of the day.
Last Stage Alzheimer's patients often sleep much of the day. | Source

Recognizing Advanced Alzheimer's in Your Loved One

First Sign: Less Emotional Turmoil
One of the most obvious signs that your loved one is moving into a later stage of the disease is that you may find them easier to manage. The intermediate stage of Alzheimer's is the most difficult. In the middle stages of the disease, many individuals have delusions, aggressive behavior, and anger towards the caregivers. However, when mental ability fails, these stressful behaviors diminish or even go away completely. We saw this dramatically in my father-in-law, Michael. In the intermediate stage, he was verbally abusive, aggressive and paranoid.
For his safety and ours we had to move him to a nursing home and for a while, we couldn't even visit him often. Much to our surprise, when Michael entered Advanced Alzheimer's, he completely changed. This man who had been tense, angry and frequently difficult even before his disease became docile, happy, and very cheerful. The nurses loved him and other visitors told us they knew he must have been a very kind man. To tell the truth, he had not. Yet we were so grateful for this period of time when we could have pleasant visits and good memories.
Second Sign: Needs More Physical Care
Frequently a person enters the final stages of dementia after a traumatic event. That could be a move to a new location, a fall which requires hospitalization, or an illness. For my father-in-law, Michael, it was a series of falls and a urinary infection which left him hospitalized for several days. Before this event, he was walking, and though often aggressive, was able to carry on short conversations about real events and memories. After his hospital stay, Michael never left his bed. Though able to continue eating regular food, he became vaguer in conversation, frequently repeating platitudes rather than actually interacting with what we said.
Third Sign: Family Begins Considering Nursing Home Options
Largely as a result of increasing needs for personal care as well as more frequent medical problems, families at this stage often start thinking about moving their relative into professional care at a nursing home or other facility. However, unless the person is hospitalized, it often takes time to find a bed for a patient. Unfortunately, families often take too long to make the decision on the move. In my own family, three of my relatives were placed in nursing care in the last month of their lives. Considering full-time care early in the advanced stage of Alzheimer's relieves much stress on caregivers and may make the end of life easier for everyone.
Fourth Sign: Rapid Decline
Often dementia in an Alzheimer's patient seems to plateau for a while. One sign of the ending stages is a decline in the person's abilities. They may stop being able to go to the bathroom, or chew without being reminded, or won't want to get out of bed. Frequently, this signals the beginning of a more rapid decline in abilities and functioning.
Unlike Michael, my mother-in-law, Nicole, seemed to slip into the later stages more gradually. After her husband's death, she would call me daily to ask about him for about 4 months. Every day I had to tell her again that he had passed away, and again go through her grief about it. Then, much to my relief, she stopped calling me daily. Soon afterward, she started having more falls and eventually stopped walking, talking and eating.

Overview of Stages

Caregiver Suggestions

lost in house
make picture signs, color guides, baby monitors to listen, warning bells on outside doors
can't dress self
use velcro fasteners and loose clothes
doesn't like bathing
give towel bath, or break bath into parts, use soft towels
problems eating
seat them upright, move slowly, puree food or use finger foods, stroke neck to aide swallowing
sleep problems
use routines like music and massage, bedtimes snack,keep awake during day,
Advanced Alzheimer's may begin gradually, or with a traumatic event which leads to a person needing 24 hour medical care.
Advanced Alzheimer's may begin gradually, or with a traumatic event which leads to a person needing 24 hour medical care. | Source

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Preparing for the End of your Loved One's Journey

It is important to understand that each person's dementia expresses differently. Before dealing with my in-laws, I had a picture in my mind of what a person with advanced Alzheimer's was like through my visits to the nursing home to carol at Christmas. I pictured someone sitting in a wheelchair staring vacantly ahead. Therefore, when my very intelligent and well-educated in-laws continued to be able to converse intelligently with us even though they were unable to remember things or do personal care, I assumed they were still in the earlier stage of Alzheimer's. As a matter of fact, my father-in-law was able to make a joke with the hospice nurse just a couple of minutes before he passed away.

Late Stage Love Story

End of Life Decisions

Therefore, it is very important to communicate with doctors, nurses and hospice about the stage they feel your loved one is in so that you can make care decisions.

As you near the end, it may be important to have a "no resuscitation" order prepared at the nursing care facility or with the hospital. It is also important to talk with the whole family about what you will and will not do to prolong life. Frequently, a person with deepening dementia will stop eating and drinking. Giving them a feeding tube can prolong their life, but can also create medical problems if their body systems are shutting down. Moreover, some measures to prolong life may be painful.

To our dismay, the paperwork for my mother-in-law had not been changed as she entered late-stage Alzheimer's, and as a result, we were faced with some agonizing decisions and her last days of life were prolonged in great misery. Very dehydrated, she was rushed to the hospital. We were informed she would pass away in that night. Instead, because they re-hydrated her at the hospital, she got better and they urged us to give her a feeding tube. We agonized over this decision, feeling pressured by one of the doctors to insert the tube, even though we knew Nicole would not have wanted it.

Finally, we were blessed by a long talk with the nurses practitioner who had been regularly seeing Nicole, along with the advice of my cousin, who has worked for years in hospice. Both of these women left the decision to us but gave us the freedom to follow our gut instinct to do what we felt was right for Nicole, and what she would have chosen if she could. We did not give her the feeding tube but instead enrolled her in hospice.

End of Life. In later stages of Alzheimer's caregivers need to re-consider End of Life directives.
End of Life. In later stages of Alzheimer's caregivers need to re-consider End of Life directives. | Source
Plants by Window. If the Alzheimer's patient is bed bound, make that place pleasant with flowers, music, pictures and sunlight.
Plants by Window. If the Alzheimer's patient is bed bound, make that place pleasant with flowers, music, pictures and sunlight. | Source

Hospice Care

Get Hospice Care Early: Hospice care is palliative care meant to ease the dying process. Hospice nurses and volunteers are available to help both the patient and the caregivers with practical, emotional and spiritual support. Best of all, Medicare generally pays for hospice care whether it is given to a person at home or in a care facility. Generally, hospice care is available for much longer than people take advantage of it. Speak to the doctor to see if your loved one would qualify to get hospice services.

Hospice Care Focuses on Comfort: The hospice nurses helped us to encourage Nicole to eat and drink, but also gave us permission to allow Nicole to refuse food and water as her body could not process it. It is natural in the process of dying for a person to refuse food and water. As the digestive process begins to shut down, the body cannot process nourishment and it makes the person uncomfortable. By making the decision to have an Alzheimer's individual moved to hospice, you allow the care for that person to move towards making them as comfortable as possible as they travel towards death.

Saying Goodbye

As Teepa Snow discusses in her excellent video, "Letting Go," the caregiver needs to help the person they love to end their journey by being willing to say goodbye. Giving the person permission to let go and leave can be difficult, and heartbreaking. Yet, it can also lead to personal peace as you allow the person to choose to end their suffering.


Family with Grandparents. Alzheimer's affects the whole family. Photo books help children have good memories.
Family with Grandparents. Alzheimer's affects the whole family. Photo books help children have good memories. | Source

5 Ways to Prepare for the End of Caregiving

  1. Understand the End of Caregiving is Difficult: After the traumatic relationship I'd had with care giving my in-laws, I really expected to mostly just feel relieved after their death. In fact, I was stunned at the depth of my emotions and grieving. I did not grieve that they were gone because I knew they had been more than ready to go. However, I grieved deeply for many of the aspects of their lives and our relationship that I wished had gone differently. Moreover, both my husband and I spent many hours just thinking through my in-law's lives and going through their papers and re-evaluating our own thoughts and feelings about our relationship.
  2. Make Funeral Preparations: Going through photos, videos and favorite songs can be a good way of preparing emotionally for the end of your loved one's life. Hospice workers are very helpful in guiding you to know when the end is near. Preparing for the funeral before death can help you make these arrangements together with other family members and can also help you make clearer decisions.
  3. Make Plans for the Future: Caregiving is physically exhausting and emotionally consuming. In the last few months of your loved one's life, the care giving may be all you can think about. I was rather upset when my husband proposed that we begin thinking about some home renovations we had been putting off during the five years of caring for his parents. Yet, when we started that process soon after his mother's death, I began to see the wisdom of having a plan for my days which kept me busy. Having something to do was an important part of my own healing from the stress of care giving.
  4. Make Time for Grieving: Whether your relationship with the person with dementia has been loving or difficult, prepare for an extended time of grieving. Give yourself time and space to think about things peacefully. I was very grateful that our home renovation project gave me many hours to think and reflect while painting, plastering or cleaning.
  5. Find Someone to Talk with: While you will need time to grieve alone and think, it is also important not to be too isolated. Talking out your feelings to a sympathetic ear can be a great relief. Sometimes it helps to join a group of other caregivers or to get professional help from hospice volunteers, a pastor or counselor. However, you may just find the best help is a group of friends who may not know about care giving but are willing to love you and listen. For me, it was a wonderful group of young moms that I met in a Mothers of Preschoolers and Toddlers group at church. They listened, encouraged, and loved me through all of the emotions of this end of Alzheimer's care giving journey.

Do you have experience with Alzheimer's? Please add to this information by sharing your experience, thoughts, and advice in the comments below.

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VirginiaLynne 3 weeks ago from United States Author

Thanks Peter--you are right that I am encouraged at the recent research. Since both of my husband's parents had this disease and I was responsible for caring for them much of the time, it does scare me a bit to think that he might be vulnerable to getting Alzheimer's also. The cost for caring for people with Alzheimer's is very high, not only in money for medical help, but in the cost of emotional care that families need to provide.

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Peter Geekie 3 weeks ago from Sittingbourne

Excellent, well written and informative article which is a great help for those dealing with this prion protein disease.

We are starting to become close to finding a cure but for many thousands this cannot come soon enough.

kind regards Peter

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VirginiaLynne 12 months ago from United States Author

Ms. Dora, You will have my prayers as you go through this season of your life. I wrote the series of articles on Alzheimer's because I wished someone had given me this information. It can be very difficult and confusing to know what to expect. Blessings to you.

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MsDora 12 months ago from The Caribbean

Virginia, your article is very helpful. I'm a caregiver for my mother who is moving toward the advanced stage. Thanks for the heads up on what to expect. Thanks for including Bruce and Jan's story on the video.

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VirginiaLynne 4 years ago from United States Author

Dear Jackie--I am so very sorry to hear your story. We only survived the struggle with my in-laws because we did have help from others. Yet we really did not get good information along the way. That is what has caused me to start researching more in depth now so I can write more in-depth information for others. My thoughts and prayers are with you as your resolve this in your mind.

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Jackie Lynnley 4 years ago from The Beautiful South

I took care of my mom with Alzheimer's and it was a nightmare for me and her. I could get no help from no one and knew nothing about special Alzheimer's places and she was so abused and mistreated in her final years. I tried my best to find out all I could but I was not prepared and with my Mom being dead two years now I am over-coming and warning people but it is really hard to accept how my sweet mother died.

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VirginiaLynne 4 years ago from United States Author

Helena--thank you so much for sharing your story. I did not get to see my grandmother or my aunt before their deaths and I've felt rather guilty that for some reason my aunt remembered me better than people she saw more often. I think it is because I have five children like she did. This was such a tough Hub to write because Alzheimer's touches so deep inside. Thank you for your comments.

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Helena Ricketts 4 years ago from Indiana

My paternal grandmother suffered with Alzheimer's and was placed in a nursing home soon after diagnosis. She left her home one evening in the middle of winter in her nightgown looking for my grandfather who had passed away 12 years earlier. The Sheriff found her walking down Main Street in the wee hours of the morning with no coat, just her nightgown. We were lucky that he found her and she didn't freeze to death.

Her sister, my great-aunt had it too.

I live in another state so I didn't get to spend as much time with her as I would have liked to and they say that's the reason why she always knew who I was, because she didn't see me on a regular basis.

You have written such a beautiful hub that explains it so well. It has literally touched my heart because it hits so close to home.

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